Perfectly Flawed ~ MindChatter
OUR Minds
"PERFECTLY FLAWED"
& Chaotic Chatter
OUR Minds
"PERFECTLY FLAWED"
& Chaotic Chatter
I have had a lot of time to reflect lately and gained a new perspective on my outlook, on absolutely EVERYTHING! I have come to the realization of how this shift or exchange of energy works. With that, my whole world of realizations has become surreal. I have always been a woman of few words, be it because I was lacking confidence or just unsure of how my words would be perceived. I fumbled through verbal communication of my needs to everyone. Probably from a learned behavior or programming. Lot’s of words with no straight line of the “definition”. Now, I understand why I never got what I needed. I ended every statement with a “Question Mark”. ??? I was scared of the “rejection” or “being judged”. Every relationship I have ever had (friends, family, co-workers, significant others) would become so cloudy and almost ended the same, EVERY TIME! Without ACTION ~ Words are literally just noise! If you don’t know what you want – how can you expect the other person to know either? Stop talking so much, Stop allowing others to be a PUPPETEER to your PURPOSE! I am now going to refer to the excess use of words as FLUFF!! FLUFF is literally a description I use for everything we use to validate our “whys” which are equivalent to a BIG FAT excuse! It’s a bargaining chip, If you take the fluff out of the equation ~ VIOLA ~ you have a legit statement or focus! A clear communication of your words. Example: Do you order a mixed drink or just a shot? Now the alcoholic beverage has fluff, where the shot of liquor does not. Y’ALL WITH ME SO FAR? When we attempt to communicate with others, we beat around the bush, tip toeing around to prevent REJECTION or ALTERING the reciprocating listener. That is fluff, ladies and gentleman. This is where the exchange of energy becomes cloudy. Now this is where communication becomes misunderstood. We have got to start saying exactly what we mean, saying it with a PERIOD at the end instead of that dreaded insecure FUCKING QUESTION MARK . Because when you leave your statement with a possible question mark, you my friend have exposed your lack of positive energy and revealed your most weakest point of entry and insecurities. The one thing we think we are hiding, by our people pleasing programming. We unknowingly put a “question mark” at the end of our wants and needs. Which has no positive outcome or benefit for ourselves. You have left yourself open to the endless, repetitious cycle of someone’s programming and their mirroring or projections. This is all within the subconscious of your foundation. Your essence. Stop using a question mark, aka. FLUFF! START BEING AUTHENTIC, by using a “period”. Yes, it is that simple!
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Pssstt...I just want to personally thank you for finding me and my insanity! This is where I feel at home - the sounding board of my thoughts echoes. When the body is tired & the mind won't SHUT THE FUCK UP! Archives
September 2021
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